I have never been in any physical relationship with men. My fiance is the first one to touch me. I still haven’t had intercourse with him. But everytime he touches me down there it hurts. He thinks I should go to the doctor. But my mom thinks it’s not necessary since I haven’t been with anyone. I want to do a pap. Mom says only women who are sexualy intimate should do a pap test. But my fiance thinks there is something wrong if it hurts that bad when he touches me. He said he doesn’t touch me very hard. Is there something I need to be worried about? Or is it normal to hurt like that since I am inexperienced? It hurts very bad. Should it it even hurt like that?
shawnree said on Friday, October 16, 2009, 0:00
Ive heard of this .it happens to quiet a lot of women .i don’t know the medical term for it but basically you have a suuuuper sensitive clit . try using some numbing cream to take the edge off you should be okay. but still talk to your obgyn they will maybe be able to get you the cream that you need hoped this help you .
don’t worry your normal, just a little toooo sensitive.
ps that’s why it hurts cause for me to much contact on one spot does hurt .it is packed full of nerve endings .he should just take it slow.
Gypsy Gal said on Friday, October 16, 2009, 4:22
Not normal so gosee your dr and maybe you will solve this problem,,,Good Luck.