Comments on: Doctor Looks In Private Parts?

By: natalie

natalie — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 17:40:45 +0000

I am guessing this is a gyneacological exam that you are getting? If not, then he will not be venturing to your genitalia. If so, he’s probably seen hundreds of patients who have had nerves much like yourself. Gynaecologists aim to have exams over with in about 15 minutes, you’re young, so chances are you won’t be getting a pap or anything like that. You’ll be fine. You aren’t the only one who will have gone to a doctor’s appointment with ungroomed pubic hair and on your period. He’s a professional. Your parents stand behind a curtain if they are in the room with you and so they can’t see anything.
If it’s not a gyno, then he won’t be examining your vagina. The closest he’ll get is perhaps checking the pulse near your pubic bone (you have underwear on while he does this), the closest he gets to your boobs is to check your breathing…You have nothing to worry about.

By: Whacko Nuttycase =)

Whacko Nuttycase =) — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:52:01 +0000

above all you need to realize that this man is a doctor, and he is just there to make sure you are healthy. if you really can’t get your doctor changed, then just remember, he is a doctor. he is a professional. and most of all, he has seen it all. looking at private parts probably don’t even phase doctors after a while!
you can ask your parents to leave the room too. i know my mom doesn’t stay in the room when i have physicals. i would not like my mom in the room if the doctors examining my areas ha.
and if you are on your period, tell the doctor. they probably won’t look then. instead, they could just check everything else, and you could schedule an appointment for next week or something and ask for a female doctor that time! also, if you think of any questions between now and then (or if there are just questions you would rather as a female doctor) you could ask then.
hope this helps.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 12:53:17 +0000

my friend im soooo sorry your so upset! the guy sees like 100 vajayjays a week… yours wont be any different! and also as long as you get done what you need, who really cares what the doctor thinks? you shouldnt! the doctors really dont think anything of this, but our embarassed minds cant seem to get over it! im 14 and i was supposed to get some sort of sh*t exam lol but refused since im the biggest chicken ever. the gyno is what the doctor is called. everything will be okay, i promise you! =)

By: [samurai

[samurai — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 08:30:44 +0000

your probaly just going for a checkup they wont do any of that stuff calm down it will be ok trust me you dont go to a doctor like that till 18

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 08:11:11 +0000

im pretty sure if ur a girl u automatically get a woman doctor 2 chk u up where as a guy gets a male doctor. Well at least at my doctors…

By: stockpot

stockpot — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 04:30:54 +0000

To physicians you’re just anatomy. And they”ve seen all kinds. Hair is nothing new to them. Boobs are just fat.
The examination is to see if you are healthy.

By: The Robster

The Robster — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 03:18:51 +0000

You can request a female doctor. If your mom is too embarrassed to ask for one, you can tell the doctor yourself before he begins. You can also tell the nurse.
Where do you live, in Canada?

By: Forever Left Eye

Forever Left Eye — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:07:24 +0000

Have a mature serious talk with your mom about your fears of having a male doctor examine you. I don’t blame you for being nervous about that!
If you’re on your period, you should cancel the appt.

By: Smileyfa

Smileyfa — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 01:06:00 +0000

Well, there isn’t anything that we can do but to tell you to tell your mom you are not comfortable that a man is going to look at you. Try to convince her to change the doctor. It doesn’t take much to change the doctor. Hope this helps.. And good luck…

By: angel

angel — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:51:56 +0000

I have the same problem I have been on my period for about a month and my mom is taking me to the doctor…..I am SO scared… I guess we will just have to suck it up ….. My aunt is a reproduction doctor and said that its just their job…but who wants that job!!!!!! Hope you get through your dilemma and I hope I do too!